Sex during pregnancy
Many women question whether it’s safe to engage in sexual intercourse during pregnancy. Many soon to be mothers and fathers are worried that they might hurt the baby or cause some sort of damage. Of course if you are experiencing a high risk pregnancy, you are at risk of pre term labour or your waters have broken, it’s best not to have sex. But if you don’t have any concerns about your pregnancy, here are some great reasons to have sex:
- Many women find that they have a higher sexual libido during pregnancy meaning more enjoyment in the bedroom.
- Baby is cushioned safely inside several layers – including the amniotic sac, uterus and mucous plug – meaning it’s not in danger of getting any kind of harm from penetrative sex.
- Orgasms cause the uterus to contract which in turn strengthens the uterus. The stronger the uterus is, the more chance that it will work fast and hard because of all the practice, giving you a shorter time in labour.
- When baby is nearly ready to arrive, both sperm and orgasms can help induce labour. But don’t worry – unless you are almost on the verge of labour this won’t work.
So go enjoy some more fun in the bedroom while you can – after the birth chances are there’ll be stitches, pain and long sleepless nights.
Actually sex during pregnancy is good and you soon learn how to compensate for the extra bulk by coming up with some inventive and very pleasing positions that you may not have thought of before pregnancy.
Also as someone pointed out, this is the time to give the father-to-be as much time as possible because some males get really jealous of their new-born babies taking up so much of their wife's time. It is also a good idea (speaking from experience here) that you discuss with him how much of your time will now needed to be given away from him.
Just a suggestion from a "been there, done that" person…hope it helps someone
When you're pregnant you really want it because of your hormones
I think as long as hubby is gentle everything should be fine. But if you feel more comfortable waiting then do so. I've never heard of sex causing someone to miscarry.
Well, I wish the libido part was true for me. When I was pregnant, I had no sex drive at all. I hope I have a different experience next time around.
I must admit my wife and I did have intercourse when she was pregnant but it was very gentle.
It's all about being creative! Not recommended if you have experienced premature birth or labour with previous babies though, as it may trigger the whole process early.
Well, this bit about orgasms causing the uterus to contract and in turn strengthens it is new to me. We should have known this before. My wife was very apprehensive about having sex when she was still pregnant. And she did have a hard time pushing and giving birth.
actually I think sex during pregnancy is good because the baby feels happy if his mom is… so i think if she enjoys sex, he will be happier.
Whatever makes the parents feel good and that is not harmful for the baby, is good. That's how I feel
Sex during pregnancy is a healthy thing, although I would not recommend it during the last month. In fact, as described above, sex can strengthen the uterus making for a healthier pregnancy and even a possibly easier delivery.
Very professional article……….cheers
@Astoria…of course if it doesn't threaten its life and health
Interesting information.
Babys are so precious! Enjoy every minute.
I completely agree with many of the points that has been raised in this article. Sexual intimacy is a normal and healthy part of a committed relationship. Before pregnancy, you likely felt comfortable being intimate with your partner. Usually, if a woman enjoyed certain sexual activities before pregnancy, she can continue them during pregnancy as long as she feels comfortable. Talk to your health provider about any specific questions.
Charles
My wife and I enjoyed wonderful physical relations when she was pregnant. Some men I know don’t like the idea, however for me, my wife was glowing so much, I couldn’t stay away!
I am doing research right now because my wife is pregnant and lets just say she is being “nice” in the bedroom. But on the other hand I was not feeling confortable about it so I am doing research on it. I have to say that after reading your comments and your article I think that I am okay with it now.
Not recommended if you have experienced premature birth or labour with previous babies though, as it may trigger the whole process early.
Of course it’s healthy
I’m glad that its safe. I couldn’t imagine going a full nine months in a relationship without sex. I guess though, hormones could tell me differently. haha
Try it outdoors on the patio furniture! Just kidding. I love my comfortable bed!
Definitely good advice to enjoy it while pregnant. There is a lull after!
I,ve had a hard time with this during my pregnancy, My first child was easy, me and my husband never stopped having sex, but this time around I seem to be really sore and we cant really have any fun for any more than 10 minutes tops. We have only had sex maybe like 3 times in 6 months, so i cant wait till its over!!